Broken Heart and Self Worth
The heart can’t be broken, that’s pride and lust that creates that illusion. After the relationship is over, a person may feel, I did all of this for you, I sacrificed so much. That’s saying “I gave all of my self-worth to you” “I was willing to make you more important than me” “I did everything you wanted me to do” “You probably will never approve me no matter how much I do and how much I give.” “I... Show more
Broken Heart and Self Worth
The heart can’t be broken, that’s pride and lust that creates that illusion. After the relationship is over, a person may feel, I did all of this for you, I sacrificed so much. That’s saying “I gave all of my self-worth to you” “I was willing to make you more important than me” “I did everything you wanted me to do” “You probably will never approve me no matter how much I do and how much I give.” “I know I can’t satisfy you but I’m willing to keep trying even if it hurts me” “Now you owe me! “I Love you!” Love does hurt and it’s free to love ALL that is. So if we say we kept loving them no matter what we had to go through, then why get so broken up emotionally when they leave? It feels like something inside just died! Where did all of my love for me, as if I’m worthy all of a sudden go to? If it was genuine love for that person, then why do they owe something?
When we share love it’s not literally just for them to give it back, it’s just unconditional love that we have for ourselves being expressed towards them. When we don’t love our own selves unconditionally then we break our own hearts, not them. Our love wasn’t even real to begin with. Codependency of any kind is not unconditional love for self and others. Would you be interested in someone with low self-worth? If one is still insecure yes. That’s why some relationships are short bouncing around, lust and a fantasy of what love is. We can feel sad for some time, but a broken heart as if we didn’t see it coming. Letting go is hard depending on the time spent, but at the same time we must be in love with who we are first, so that we can give and be open to receive, don’t overdo it to soon because you won’t receive love, that shows your worth. Needing to have someone love and like us to feel worthy and alive is a trap for abuse! Or loving someone for something we feel is missing within us. Unconditional love keeps our hearts open not closed in grief. If you notice time is going and there is no receiving of care and love, then it’s our own fault, that’s using our own selves out dry, so don’t be mad at them. Let’s take advantage of our Hearts, it’s extremely valuable
well hello to you too Ancaniera! Well pretty much hands over the body, clearing a persons aura and clearing chakras from blocked energy. I like helping others clear karmic residue. I also do counseling and give chi. I use herbs that can be boiled and put into bath water to... Show more
well hello to you too Ancaniera! Well pretty much hands over the body, clearing a persons aura and clearing chakras from blocked energy. I like helping others clear karmic residue. I also do counseling and give chi. I use herbs that can be boiled and put into bath water to remove negative draining energy etc. how long you been practicing reiki?
I practice Reiki since eight years. I do it on my own. Only a patient and me, you understand? Clearing karmic residue I have never heard about. How did you call this and what did you do with the persons?
Well it's nothing too deep, holding on to certain types of memories especially painful ones that blocks one from their potential. I use teas that I focus reiki energy on or my hands to remove those blocks, so that one can stop having the same issues going around in circles. I've... Show more
Well it's nothing too deep, holding on to certain types of memories especially painful ones that blocks one from their potential. I use teas that I focus reiki energy on or my hands to remove those blocks, so that one can stop having the same issues going around in circles. I've done a lot with just people I know
can I please have some books titles about this subject ? thanks in advanced <3